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Why Men Do not Comfortable With Women Salaried Big?

Written By yudha on Sunday, November 25, 2012 | 10:13 AM


Why would a man troubled by the higher paid women? Apparently jealousy or revenge is not always the cause, said Liza Mundy in The Sex Richer. The man continued to force themselves to get income. Here's the reason they behave like that:
Men still think that making a living is greater liability. They feel the need to contribute as much or more than women. If not, they will blame themselves. This, for him, is probably the biggest reason they are competing with women's earnings.
Ilana Demantas sociologist and Christian Myers highlights this mindset when they interviewed a bunch of people laid off from their jobs when the massive economic recession.
Many of those who have the support of your wife or girlfriend. These people are very grateful for their partners like that. They understand the value of having a partner who loves you and stick with your current crisis. "It's a blessing because my wife works and has enough salary," said a source interviews with the researchers, who presented their findings at the 2011 Conference. "If I lived alone, I would be in serious trouble."
To show their gratitude, the men helped in any way. "I have a lot more to correct the damaged part of the house because I felt it was the only way to change my duty," said one source interviews. Another source said, "I wake up early in the morning and make coffee every day for Colleen before she goes to work. I do not even drink coffee, but I made her. He can sleep a little longer."
Referring to these findings, the study authors said that a man came to the psychological crossroads. The economic crisis made them get "a unique space" to reconsider everything they believe about women and earnings to date.
We've searched our lives since the 1930s: during the Depression, the woman who found a way to feed their families resented not only by culture but also by the people they support. The boy who worked to help the family get a place of honor at the dinner table, while mom does the same thing be good enough by their own offspring.
It is no longer valid today. "Our respondents value the work of women is important for the survival of their families," they said. "Instead of expressing hatred of women who support their families, these people expressed their gratitude and respect for women who work."
However, in this study, men still feel they should contribute. They are very shaken by their inability to make a living, and sometimes cry when they talk to their partner. "You feel like people are not worthless," said a source. Another source commented, "It makes you, or at least I, feel like a man."
In fact, if he was bothered by the higher income women, often it's just because men are worried about their self-esteem dropped and they will leave their wives. If they do not have income, what else they could be proud of.

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